Off The Record Counselling Service
Off The RecordCounselling Service

How Counselling Works

Counselling is based upon a special kind of relationship between the client and a trained counsellor, and is quite unique in that it aims to empower the client. We use the word client ratther than patient as this implies that you are told what to do to make you feel better and that any failure is a failure on your part. 

 

The counselling relationship allows you to explore your beliefs and your values at your pace. It does not impose any sets of values on you or judge the way you choose to live your life. 

 

While a diagnosis will help you feel that your illness is being acknowledged or validated it can have the unintended consequence of limiting how your experience is viewed by a wellbeing practitoner. In counselling and counselling psychotherapy, by contrast, rather than working with a label, we will use a diagnosis to inform how we work with you as a unique individual with uniques experiences.

Counselling skills and theory

It is important to distinguish between skills and theory in the context of counselling. The word skills describes a set of interpersonal tools that the counsellor has at his or her disposal which might include:

  • Listening attentively
  • Paraphrasing, to show and clarify understanding
  • Asking questions
  • Encouraging the clinet to be specific
  • Accurately reflecting feelings
  • Helping to clarify thoughts
  • Focusing on key issues
  • Offering challenge when needed

Counselling theory, on the other hand, informs the use of these and other skills by drawing on bodies of knowledge about human development and the causes of distress. Our counsellors will have undergone extensive training, trypically at degree level, in order to become qualfied counsllors or psychotherapists.

 

Our Counselling Approaches page provides more information about the various theoretical models our counsellors are trained in. 

Counselling Ethics

Off The Record is an organisational member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) and our individual counsellors are members of BACP and/or UKCP (United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy) as well. These memberships ensure that your counsellor works ethically and with strict boundaries.

 

If problems to arise, we have a strict complaints procedures both as an organisation and as individual counsellors.

 

As Accredited members of BACP and UKCP members, some of our counsellors are now listed on Professional Standards Authority approved registers held by these bodies.  Please feel fre to discuss this with your counsellor.

Confidentiality

At the heart of the counselling relationship is absolute confidentiality. Counsellors are bound by ethical considerations to seek regular guidance from more highly trained supervisors to ensure they always work ethcally and competently.

 

As a client of Off The Record any information you provide will be kept confidential and not revealed to any third parties without your permission. However, there are some rare and special circumstances detailed below:

  • Where there is good reason to believe that you or someone else may be at risk of serious harm, information may be revealed to third parties outside of the service. However, unless the situation is an emergency, we would endeavour to discuss the proposed disclosure with you in advance and try to obtain your consent.
  • A Counsellor can be required by a court of law to provide information about a client, although this situation is very rare.
  • All counsellors working at Off the Record receive regular clinical supervision, an ethical requirement of BACP and UKCP. Any information disclosed to the supervisor is bound by the same rules of confidentiality.

Trinity Street Surgery
1 Trinity Street
Norwich
NR2 2BQ

If you have any questions or wish to make an appointment, please contact us by

Phone: 01603 626 650

Email:

info@otr-norfolk.org.uk

Or use our contact form.

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Off the Record Counselling Service Ltd is a registered charity and a company limited by guarantee.
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